If someone impugns you or your honor (in the sense of attacking your “good name” or reputation) ignore him.
If that isn’t possible, seek a graceful, even a humorous way out — like the American in France who once met a Frenchman’s challenge to a duel by selecting for the weapons “apple pie at ten paces.”
After all, what is that false “honor” but an affirmation of ego: the root cause of all suffering?!
Suffice it if you, following your own conscience, act honorably. People’s unflattering opinions of you are not your problem, but theirs.
By Swami Kriyananda